Jan
Becoming depressed when facing your own mortality is normal. When I was diagnosed with Leukemia I tried to educate myself about the disease as best I could. That helped. Reading inspiration stories helps, so do visits and calls from family and friends. Having someone listen to you as you sound things out can be a great relief. You don't have to fix the problem - it's not expected - just be there for the person. Getting involved in things helps too. There's support groups and counselors. Anti-depressants can be a way to supply a safety net so the person doesn't sink too far into depression. The whole thing is part of a grieving process. It feels like your body is sabotaging you - so it can be difficult to handle. Just trying to understand what someone is going through is a great help.
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This is a difficult question to answer. The oncologist can refer you to a psychologist or prescribe antidepressants (if it doesn't interfere with the cancer treatments). There are probably support groups where you can meet others in similar situations. Ask the doc to provide you with resources and speak to a social worker. Family and friends can help as well.
Good luck!
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When my wife was diagnbosed with cancer, her surgeon put her on an antidepressant during the first visit.
he also recommended I see my dr and get myself on one.
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Google DBT(dialetical behavior therapy). It is a great form of therapy which teaches you skills to manage stress. Check your city for a DBT office.
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